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saltdawg ([personal profile] saltdawg) wrote2009-11-03 06:53 am

Defenestration.

I just had to do a minor flist defenestration. I had a drunken epiphany last night, shortly after talking to [profile] morty_baby for the seventeenth time. I realized that I've made some really good friends and admirable aquaintances in real life from the whole cloth of Live Journal. And I realized that those real-life connections are hobbling the freedom I once enjoyed in these pages. So I cut out (most) of the people I've formed and/or ruined real life relationships with. And their close friends, weather I know them or not. Because I'm a narcissist and believe that it's all about me.

I'd like to say that it's not personal, but I can't. This is extremely personal with extreme prejudice...

But even still, if you got the axe, my intentions aren't malicious. Just self-centered and selfish. Because that's how I roll.

(and those of you who I've spent IRL time with who are still around? Draw your own conclusions, because I'm not going to say it.)

In other earthshaking news, I am now officially a resident of Florida. Suck it Rhode Island income taxes!

ETA: I shall maintain my policy of leaving the posts which feel substantial "public."

[identity profile] savateuse.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)
its alright, I do the same thing with filters. I usually filter people I know in person out of most my entries.

[identity profile] morty-baby.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I had to check to see if you cut me. I'm glad to see you didn't or I would have to hunt you down for sport. It's 6 a.m. and I am having a vod and OJ. Good morning!

[identity profile] splatterhouse.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Well now I'm glad we missed each other when you were docked in Boston. Should I avoid you in the future? :P

[identity profile] piedpiper.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 03:33 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm with you 100%. ever since i started getting to know my lj friends on the real, i've had to filter everything down to the nitty gritty. i have like 500 filters. your way is easier.

[identity profile] zeldakitty.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 03:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Suck it, Rhode Island WINTERS!!!!!

Where in Florida are ya?

[identity profile] danjite.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad to be here.

Fucking windy today.

There is no springtime in Wellington- just an unending battle between winter and summer for supremacy.

[identity profile] laurachicken.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 06:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations. Welcome to hell!

[identity profile] thatdamnninja.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)

with 90% of the people on my Facebook, I always think, "You know, I love you and I'm glad to know you, but you will NEVER be on my LJ!"

[identity profile] khaybee.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Just sending a big kiss to Max for all the well-wishing after my surgery. Thanks my friend.

[identity profile] ninjastyle.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)
♥ Good to be here.

We'll talk soon, I hope. We'd better And I'm glad I'm not the only one that says, "Come for the boobs; stay for the brains."

Take care of yourself, my ninja. Thinking of you.
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[identity profile] zutroy.livejournal.com 2009-11-03 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I was wondering why I dropped off the list...